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Men: Women are really easy. You just don't know it.

In case you didn't read Josh's comment a few posts back, here is what you need to do when you love a woman. If you are a guy and you are reading this take notes! The answer to your question of "Really?" is YES. I would so fall for all of that stuff. It's so simple. Of course you have to mean it.

I'm having a difficult time right now with High School Guy because I'm missing all of that. I thought we had a momentum going along those lines and then it stopped. I'm thoroughly confused as to how he feels about me and you know what? I had to deal with that feeling for the last 2 years or so with the person I was married to so I don't ever want to wonder how someone feels about me again. If you like me, for Pete's sake, act like you like me and want to spend time with me! Don't leave me guessing. It just makes me feel desperate and anxious.

Of all the guys I've dated so far, Buff Gym Guy was the best at making me feel special. Granted it came of as mildly smarmy because he was over the top but at the same time I appreciated knowing he was paying attention and wanted to be with me. Now he's moving to LA so I won't even be able to get any indirect attention from him at the gym anymore. Sigh...

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