Men: Women are really easy. You just don't know it.

In case you didn't read Josh's comment a few posts back, here is what you need to do when you love a woman. If you are a guy and you are reading this take notes! The answer to your question of "Really?" is YES. I would so fall for all of that stuff. It's so simple. Of course you have to mean it.

I'm having a difficult time right now with High School Guy because I'm missing all of that. I thought we had a momentum going along those lines and then it stopped. I'm thoroughly confused as to how he feels about me and you know what? I had to deal with that feeling for the last 2 years or so with the person I was married to so I don't ever want to wonder how someone feels about me again. If you like me, for Pete's sake, act like you like me and want to spend time with me! Don't leave me guessing. It just makes me feel desperate and anxious.

Of all the guys I've dated so far, Buff Gym Guy was the best at making me feel special. Granted it came of as mildly smarmy because he was over the top but at the same time I appreciated knowing he was paying attention and wanted to be with me. Now he's moving to LA so I won't even be able to get any indirect attention from him at the gym anymore. Sigh...

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Making Eye Babies

Colleges often have a lot of rules the students need to follow. After all, a bunch of 18-21 year olds can't really be expected to self-govern on their own, at least not 24/7, no matter how vehement they are that they can do just that. (I was 18-21 once myself so I know it's annoying to hear that. I don't mean all 18-21 year olds individually, I mean when they all get together in one place.) Then there are Christian Colleges which have more rules, often based on biblical teachings and moral dictates. Further down the spectrum is Bob Jones University* which considers the Christian colleges just too darn liberal so they piles on a bunch of morally based codes of behavior. Not to be outdone by the crazy liberal heathens at Bob Jones, Pensacola Christian College goes hog wild with the rules and moral imperatives and makes the Taliban look almost liberal. An article in the March 24th edition of the Chronicle of Higher Education explains some of the rules and regulations the stu...

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