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Spontaneous and Heartfelt Action - or lack thereof

Dr. Nik said this in a comment to the last post -

"...As for Valentines Stepping up Romance? Screw that. Romance step up isn't a day. It's a mindset....It's all about spontaneous and heartfelt action. Not About prescribed motions."

Since I started to write a short comment back but then it got long I figured I 'd do a post instead. So...
Dr. Nik, I agree wholeheartedly. Unfortunately, my experience has been a complete and utter lack of spontaneous and heartfelt action. I'm definitely one of those people who would scoff at Valentine's Day had I been in a relationship full of surprise romantic gestures. Alas, I was not. However, I believe I may have now entered one and I am looking forward to giving and receiving those gestures.

For my Friendster Guy fans out there, here's another thing you can add to your list of "Why Sassy Pants should keep seeing Friendster Guy". (For the record, I agree). He brought me flowers yesterday, at my office, in person, because he had to cancel our date tonight. His (very old and not very healthy) grandfather passed away and he'll be gone the rest of the week for the funeral. What? His grandfather dies and he thinks of me?! I'm SO not used to that sort of thing. My friend B said "Marry this one as soon as possible" I don't think I'm going to do that but I thanked him several times for his thoughtfulness. And then we went out to dinner. Etc...

I'm going to miss him while he's gone.

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