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My One Year Divorceaversary

Happy Divorceaversary to me.
Happy Divorceaversary to me.
Happy Divorceaversary to MEEee!
Happy Divorceaversary to me.

That's right folks, one year ago today my divorce was final. I had thought it was December 1st but it's today. This is just as well because tomorrow is a different one year anniversary - it's the day I met Friendster Guy! Yeah!

I'll tell you what, if I knew then how satisfying my life would be post-divorce, I would have gotten divorced in 2003, not 2005. Seriously. I went and saw a counselor in 2003 and that was the first time I muttered the word divorce. I guess at that point I wasn't quite ready. I wanted to give the relationship a try. Unfortunately X didn't. Which, in the long run, worked out for the best. It made for a bitch of a 2004-2005 but it made for a fabulous 2006. Here's to a great future.

P.S. Happy last day of NaBloPoMo. Welcome to my Personal Thesis Writing Month (PerTheWriMo - it doesn't quite have the same ring though does it?)

Comments

Anonymous said…
Congrats. :D Good to see that it worked out for the best for you.
11:43 AM
Anonymous said…
I wish you every success with PerTheWriMo. And, yes... Here's to a great future.
7:31 PM
Anonymous said…
Hi people
I do not know what to give for Christmas of the to friends, advise something ....
7:54 AM
Teena in Toronto said…
Congrats! It took me a couple years to divorce husband #1 too. But like you said, you have to be ready.
7:21 PM
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